What is a service top?

A service top is a term commonly used in the BDSM community to describe an individual who enjoys providing acts of service to their partner during a scene or play session. This can include things like giving massages, performing acts of physical or sexual service, or taking care of their partner's needs and desires.

Service tops are often motivated by a desire to please their partner and fulfill their partner's fantasies and desires. They may derive satisfaction from being able to provide their partner with pleasure and enjoyment through their acts of service.

Service tops often prioritize communication, negotiation, and consent in their interactions with their partners. They may work closely with their partners to understand their preferences, boundaries, and desires in order to provide them with the most enjoyable and fulfilling experience possible.

Overall, service tops play an important role in the BDSM community by offering their skills, care, and attention to their partners in a way that helps create a safe, consensual, and fulfilling experience for all involved.